A chair....

Lately I've been thinking about relationship things. I'm with someone who is quiet and isn't very open. I've tried getting him to be more open and share his feeling with me, to face our issues head on instead of acting like nothing is wrong and leaving me to deal with them. I knew in the beginning he was this way. And yet I still get upset at him for the way that he is.

It's kinda like this:

You see a chair and think it's just a chair. But what if you want it to be a table? It won't happen. Because you knew that chair was a chair. And not a table.

Just some food for thought.

Currently confused. Beating myself up because I know my chair will never turn into a table. Now do I accept it as it is? Do I want a chair or do I want a table?