I saw someone post how they are 9 weeks pregnant after 11 losses and how "blessed/lucky/happy" they are to have a VIABLE pregnancy... they went on to give advice about not giving up and not stressing.

seriously? I've been at this whole TTC thing for a combined time of almost 7 years. 8 losses and a couple of those were second trimester.

last October, we found out we were pregnant. announced on Halloween. a week before my birthday in November, our baby died. I had just seen and listened to the heartbeat the day before at a dr appt and our baby looked fine. perfect. healthy. a year since and we've had two more losses. I have a 20 month old daughter. some people just have a hard time getting and staying pregnant.