Sexy pictures........or other things?

Hey ladies. So I'm kind of a mess. I had my daughter 8 months ago and I just feel awful.

I have been with my husband for four years and he kinda tells me I'm still desirable....I guess? But I feel like I need something more.

He says that him having sex with me should be enough to feel desired and I feel a little ungrateful because deep inside it's not really enough to me.

A wonderful friend of mine suggested I do a sexy boudoir photo shoot. I've considered it but deep inside I feel like I can't pull it off and like I will totally crash and burn if I try to.

I guess I just want some opinions on other ways you ladies feel desired or if you think it's worth a shot?

I keep telling myself what's that point? He can find beautiful pictures of women who have looked much better in shoots so why should I do it?

I feel like he'll look at them like this: