Clomid question

I'm on my first round, 50mg. I have PCOS, so I cannot rely on OPKs and Ive tried temping, but I just suck at doing it correctly. And by doing it correctly, I know how to take my temp, I just wake up a lot randomly very early in the morning so I never remember to take my temp, because I'm half asleep. Anyways, so I'm just guessing and I cannot figure out when or if I have ovulated yet. I'm currently on cycle day 16 and I took Clomid cycle 5-9. I get everyone is different and that I may not even ovulate, but what seems to be the average for you ladies? Any symptoms you have during ovulation?

My symptoms:

-Sharp shooting pains randomly in both breast, not often or constant, maybe 2-3 times a day

-Some cramping, but not much really and also cramped some while still taking Clomid

- Tired more often

- Pain where ovaries are, both sides at different times (not sure if the pain is coming from my ovaries or coming from somewhere else, but that's where the pains are)

- Hot flashes (more so as a symptom of the Clomid, but I still have them every now and then, not nearly as often as I was)

- Bloated/constipated

- CM is very wet/watery and almost milky in color (been like that for a few days)

- Cervix seems higher, between soft and firm, not sure if open or closed

- A little moody sometimes

***Though I can't rely on OPKs, I have been taking them just to see what happens. I took them for 3 days and it was negative, but the line sort of seemed like it might be getting darker, but not by a lot at all, if at all. However, my husband and I went out of town and I did not continue to test until we got back. I took two since we've been back, I only did NOT test 2 days while we were out of town, but the two I have taken (since being back) they seem even lighter than the 3 I took before we left. Doesn't help me at all, but say I did ovulate while I was gone, would the test fade that fast (with in 1-2 days) or would it gradually go back to being light?

Any advice helps! I'm just going crazy because I have no idea when I should ovulate, I think this is worse than the 2WW, at least then you have an idea of when you should expect to get a positive test, assuming you get pregnant 😂😭

TIA