Helping around house

My husband works 14 hr a day. We live in a townhouse and use the big dumpster to put our trash in. My husband literally does nothing around our house. I stay home 5 days, work two, full time student, and take care of our 11 month old. I can't take the trash out unless our daughter is sleeping. I have asked multiple times to take care of the trash. He doesn't. I just asked him to take the trash out and he said ok. He took his time to get ready for work and I asked him when he was leaving to take the trash out. He said he would tonight. I said no because it was ready by the door. He got MAD at me and walked out of the house. What the fuck. I know he works and is away most all day and i don't expect him to do anything. But when i ask for help one time he says NO. It's so stupid. I usually always take the trash out and needed help. He lives here too right??? He should help more in my opinion. I do everything. He doesn't help with our daughter just plays with her.