Sex after missed miscarriage

Semi long rant from an emotional reck... 
So I just had a missed miscarriage at 9weeks this past Wednesday. I'm struggling to deal with this as my DH and I had been TTC #1 for a really long time. Despite trying to cope with our loss, I feel a need to be intimate with my DH. (TMI) We've always had great sex and it makes me feel so close to him. Right now I just want the reassurance that we are okay. I don't know if this makes sense at all. He doesn't say much about the loss and has been really attentive but I feel like he's been distant (maybe it's just me). Plus I really just want to just "get back on the horse" and try for another. Am I crazy?? Is sex safe now??