Find out gender in secret...

Hi everyone, we have the 20 week scan coming up and my husband really wants to keep the gender a surprise until birth but I want to know, I feel like it will create even more of a bond!

I am going to the scan by myself as husband works away from home... Is it really bad if I find out the gender and not tell him I know?

P.S. He already has a son that lives with us but this is my first child.

Please no negativity!

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