Are you pregnant yet??

The holidays are fast approaching and tickets are booked to head to both sides of the family for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I'm getting so nervous because I've put on some weight, and have a tiny belly. I want to wear less form fitting clothes to avoid looking pregnant, but will definitely look slightly pregnant in tigher clothes. So I've decided to wear what I'm more comfortable in, looser clothes but just don't feel like dealing with all the questions I know will come up, especially from hubby's side of the family. We're just starting to explore possible causes of possible infertility and healing from a difficult miscarriage we really thought would stick. Is it out of line to ask our families to keep the baby questions to themselves? In a kind way, but I just don't want to deal with it, I'm still hurt, angry, confused, ect and trying to process it all myself. Anyone have ideas of how to phrase it? I just want relaxing family time, without feeling the weight of our loss and struggle TTC.