How have you ladies chosen what birth to have if youve been given an option. Ive had a csection and a VBAC (natural birth). The c section was an emergency without going into labour because my sons heartbeat dropped i had a third degree tear with my daughter, she wad 9lb 5. My midwife has advised that i could opt for a c section with either births alone as they are classed as traumatic but i dont know what i want! How do you come to a decision you're 100% happy with?!