Embarrassing butthole hair

I'm just really curious because I find this embarrassing. I consider myself kinda hairy. Got lots of hair on my arms and also my naval line. But it's not like crazy hairy. I know that it's natural but is it also natural to be hairy in your butt crack? My man doesn't seem to mind but I just find it really distracting when we are making love. I've naired it and also tried shaving but it's a really sensitive area. Does anyone else have this problem? Do you ladies wax?