I don't know if it's because my father has been the only guy I knew or being used to since I was born but him and his friends they all talk bad about their wives or girlfriend when they are out. Saying how stupid they are or how much stupid decision they make. I asked my BF and he said he never does that. I want to know if any of the guys here do that when you are out with your friends. Because my father does that every single day. Also it has been happening since I was a kid. If most guys don't do that should I tell my mother? Because it does hurt me. I am even looking for a way not to talk to him just not to have to deal with him talk down of my mother. She does not know. And they are together.