The struggle of chub rub

Alyssa • Keep up the good vibes

So I’ve had this pair of jeans for a year, maybe 2. And I have thick thighs and they rub so if course I’m gonna have chub rub. So my boyfriend say the little holes I didn’t even know I had and over reacted. Saying how could I wear these to school. I’m walking around all day and sitting it’s not like my legs are spread at school. He said I need to get jeans that fit me and he said he’s dated actual fat girls and they didn’t have it. What do I even say? He said chub rub isn’t even a thing