What do you do with child #1!?

Kirsten • Mom of 🦊, looking to add another kit to the litter!

We are ttc #2 and our first is almost a year old. By the time hubs gets home from work kiddo is up from both naps and won't be down for bed until 7:30. There have been a few times during our fertile window when hubs has to leave in the evening so we try to Get Er Done before then, but we've got an active kiddo running around! What do you guys do with them!?