Relationship coming to an end

I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I even moved to a different country to be with him. We have a house, a dog, a good life!! But.... he is brutal with his words. And at first our relationship had jealousy issues but looking back it was all just ways for him to manipulate me i guess (?) and i'm just know realizing with everything that goes on that he could be emotionally abusive.

(always puts him above me status wise, uses social media to block me after arguments when we live together, doesn't/won't hold my hand or any touching in public and also at home unless it's sexual or jokingly doing something, laughs at me when i finally open up to express what's going on, buys a car for me but then doesn't let me drive and now takes it to work so that i can't drive it and makes up every excuses why i can't drive it or his truck that sits there during his shift that in turn make me too scared to want to drive his truck, and so much more degrading and unsupportive, unloving words and actions)

He doesn't hit me (but has used the fact that he doesn't hit me to battle the statement that his words are abusive) and I really am so thankful for him and what he does for us and how much he sacrifices because his job isn't easy, and in tough conditions. He says he's tired from work and I understand that but I feel as if i'm always catering to his emotions, leaving arguments in the past because i blow it off. well, not anymore.

but i'm worried that i'm being a brat because he does give me so much yet gives me so little at the same time...

what do i do? where do i begin to break it off if i should? how do i confront him about this more when he doesn't take anything i say about our relationship seriously 😒

i am sad but i'll be okay!! i'm just really effing confused...