ummmm??

Harleigh

so i had read awhile back that something that doesnt hurt you wont hurt your baby.. like if i were to push on my stomach and it doesn't hurt me, it wont hurt baby.. well my boyfriend's 3 year old son was like patting on my stomach and it didnt hurt whatsoever, so i thought it was okay... but now i feel crampy and weird.. is that bad?? im 20 weeks if that matters