Does everyone enjoy sex at the beginning?

So I recently lost my virginity, and it hurts more than it pleases. Every time he ask me "am I liking it better now? My answer is always "it hurts less". It's has been about about a month since we been having a sexual relationship but I can't ever be sexually aroused before/during/after doing it. It just seems like something that I have to do just to get it over it. I do care about him and I do want sex to be pleasing more than hurting, but it just so hard. In my head, I would prefer to not do it, because i have 0 tolerance for pain. It only hurts when he's inside of me after he pulls out I'm fine. I know relationships never last without a strong sexual relation so that's why I keep on trying. How do I fix this? 😫🤦‍♀️