Newbie to this group TTC

So I’ve been with my DH nearly 13 years and married 6 years.

I’m coming up on 40, dr took me off the pill just over 5 years ago due to my age, bein a smoker and bmi.

I suffer from depression and anxiety and fibromyalgia and on medication.

Any tips or advice to try make it happen? Even though we have not been really tryin well maybe he has I would just be like if it happens it happens.