So my half sister gave birth to her son on Monday. She called me and texted me sooo many times while I was at work because she said she didn't want to be alone and couldn't get in contact with her husband. Of course I went to her aid because I didn't want her to be alone in her time of need. I told my husband he would need to pick our son up from Basketball practice and he would also need to cook dinner. He was fine with that. At the hospital I called and called and I even texted him (I did that all from my sisters phone). He turned his phone off and she just made up the excuse that his phone died. I didn't mention it again because I knew she was probably already hurting inside. She was struggling with her contractions and decided to have an epidural. She had one and it seemed to help her relax some. My sisters husband is a P.O.S. He has hit her in the past and cheated. Everyone has told her to just take her kids and leave but that's easier said than done for many women who seem to go through it. I didn't tell her she should leave him but back when he was hitting her I told her that she and her kids were welcome at my home anytime.

After my nephew was born he finally showed up a couple hours after my sister gave birth and he didn't show up alone. He had a young girl with him (18 or 19). I was so pissed off and I could tell it was breaking my half sisters heart because all she did was hold her head down.

So I approached him "where were you while your wife was giving birth to your son? Wtf were you?" All he did was chuckle and say "Good to see you to. Can I hold my baby?" He walked past me and the girl who was with him stood and watched me. I turned my attention to her. I didn't want to snap on her but what female can just be okay with what was going on?

"You need to go wait in the waiting room" was what I said to the young girl. She rolled her eyes and left the room. I felt like slapping the shit out of my sisters husband. He was standing and laughing holding the baby. I sat and starred at him. When my sister sat up in bed and started talking to him all he did was laugh. I offered to leave but she told me to stay. It took everything in me not to curse him out.

My sister asked him who the girl was and he was like. "Nobody just my niece best friend. She needed a ride home from my sisters house and since I was already over there I agreed to give her a ride home." My sister asked him about his phone and why he didn't answer he came up with the excuse it did but he was able to charge in the car. Then they started arguing. I snuck out of the room while they argued and I went and sat in the waiting room. Hour or so pass and he comes storming out. Grabs the girls hand and she starts play fighting him and pulling on him and he is laughing and smiling and telling her if she doesn't stop she will get a spanking and she's whining about being hungry and saying what all she wants to eat while they are walking out. I guess he didn't see me while he was doing all that. I go and find my sister in the room and she was sitting and using her phone. I didn't know if I should tell her what I just saw because I didn't want to further anger her. I decided to ask her who the girl was and she told me that he told her it was just one of his niece friends. I decided to tell her what I saw and she told me "That doesn't mean anything. Thank you for coming you can leave now".

I was like WTF? But I held my nephew a little bit and changed his diaper. Gave him back to her and left. It wasn't the time to argue. What do you ladies think. Would you feel like something was going on between your husband and the girl... especially since he has cheated on her in the past? Or am I just reading too much into it.