My fiance and I decided to just have me and him in the room when I'm in labor and to have my parents and his parents come in and them be the first ones to see her besides us. Well we've hit a bump in the road. His parents gave me a place to live and they feed me and by the baby most of what I have for her so I feel like they should be before my parents. But my mom has also bought some clothes for the baby but very little. Its honestly as much as she can do bc she doesn't have tons of money. Well we want to have them come in separately to avoid drama. But then I don't want my mom to feel like they're better than her. What do I do?