Making Christmas plans with a baby due on December 19th

Anyone else's family causing stress to them about making Christmas plans already with baby due close to dec 25th? They started talking about it in September and I want to just cancel extended family Christmas or do it in January. The family lives 3 hours away and I really don't want to be stressed about trying to entertain for 4 different holidays for our 4 divorced parents at our house one right after their other with a newborn. And one wants to come for just one night with her new boyfriend!! So there is no way she is gonna help!