Marriage & Children

After how many years of marriage did you wait to have a kid? And what age were you when you got married. My husband and I are stuck between having a kid after a year of marriage or waiting 5 years so we can experience married life outside of having a kid. We also don’t want to wait to long because we want to move for our careers, however we want the first years of our kid’s life to be around family. Yes we have talked about this together;just curious on what other people have done and how that worked.