I don’t know where to go from this.

I’ve been with my boyfriend 6 months. It’s all been great until recently. Suddenly when I’m with him he has no time for me. Its not like we’re together all of the time he lives a half an hour drive away and we both work so we have busy schedules-we only see each other on weekends. I’ve started trying to avoid going to his house, trying to not sleep over. His family make me feel uncomfortable, in particular his brother in law. Comments are always made about our sex lives and while they find it funny I really feel dirty and uncomfortable. I’ve been through a rape in the past and find it extremely hard to discuss sex and while I am willing to do it with him I really don’t appreciate the family discussion basing off my partner and i’s sex life. Aside from this he never wants to message me anymore or FaceTime, spends all his time on his games or FaceTiming his friends. When I ask him if he wants to call me he always ‘can’t be bothered’ and when I’m with him he ignores me to play games instead. It’s like I’m not even there. It’s causing many arguments between us and his anger levels have risen. We argue over everything because he takes everything to heart and I’m starting to wonder if we really should be together 😓I’ve tried to speak to him but he gets so defensive and I don’t know what to say or do😓help me ladies??