Completely detached husband

I may be seriously losing my mind. My husband doesn't help with ANYTHING. He is so freaking detached from me and this pregnancy, it's ridiculous.

I have idiopathic hypersomnia. Which is basically sort of like narcolepsy. But obviously since I found out I was preg, I haven't been taking my adderall. I would normally take 20-30 mg 3x a day to stay awake. I have been on this dosage for 5 years.

Since getting pregnant and not being on my meds, I literally sleep all day. It is just as frustrating for me as I imagine it is for my husband. I feel like he thinks I'm being lazy? Idk. But he has been a royal d-bag lately. We don't touch, kiss, or hardly even talk. I try to make sure I am up and have half ass done something around the house when he gets home. But I can't handle it anymore. I physically can't do all of my normal stuff.

He is normally outside piddling around in his shop or working on something most days. But today it was raining, so he was inside all evening. He was an ass to the kids, and ignored all of us to screw around on his phone all evening. And the more I thought about it, he does this every freaking day. But today I'm trying to cook, and help the kids with homework, and it just felt like a slap in the face that he tuned it all out until he wanted to get pissy and whip someone's butt.

I just feel like he doesn't care how physically taxing this is on me. It's like he doesn't realize what a pregnancy puts us through. I told him the other day he should read a book about what all is going on right now for me, and he laughed in my face and said "women have been doing that for hundreds of years...you'll be fine"

How can he be such a di*k?! 😩