Feeling crazy with my 2 yo

She has definitely hit the terrible twos and I have NO idea how to handle them!

Guys I love her to death but she has fits that even my own parents have no idea how to deal with ( apparently my sister and I NEVER had bad days 🙄)

She’s very wild. Which I know is normal. But I NEE to stop her from thinking it’s okay to jump on my and head butt me. I know she’s only playing. These things are NOT out of anger. How do I go about stopping this from happening? It usually takes place when she’s really tired. She’ll ask me to hold her and be turn around and start playing to the point where it does kind of hurt lol and I want to put a stop to it now before I start having a baby bump!

Another issue is whining. She whines A LOT for things that I KNOW she can ask for. And there is no simple “use your words” shell just say “UH UH!” And get mad....she’s VERY VERY headstrong.

Any tips on handling a headstrong, sometimes wild child? Please? I’m at my wit’s end on some days! 😂