She wants Matthew for a boy and Chloe for a girl. Both lovely names but not for us. A girl i absolutely hate named her kid Matthew and my friend in school had a labrador named Chloe. We have decided Nova for a girl and Arlo for a boy. She said theyre that out there and weird if we choose to name the baby that she wont even acknowledge it and name it by their middle name in this case... Rose or John. I feel shes being unfair. Her daughters child is Samara and personally i hate the name idk why just don't like it and she thinks its awesome. I thought if im the one carrying the baby and my hubby and i like the name then thats our decision and not hers... shes meant to be coming to the birth.... i feel like the way she has carried on over the name im not even sure i want her at the birth ...