I need to be sexier/prettier...

Why is that my husband can get hard and get off to watching porn or looking at another naked woman's body, but not mine? I play with myself in front of him like he likes, I tell him I'm down for anything, but when we try to do anything he just gets bored and goes soft. Why can't I be his fantasy and the girl he wants to get off to? Why can't I be more sexy or beautiful or whatever it is he is seeing in them?

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Al

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This has nothing to do with you honey, this is his issue. There are a couple of men that I have run into that have this same issue. I am so sorry that you are going through this, it is so so hard. Can you maybe suggest to him to try not masterbating for a week or more and then try sex?