Enlightenment

My guy is very shy when it comes to talking about sex and becomes shame faced when it's about things we do or things I need from him to help me climax. He also told me that he believed that I came every time we had sex because he saw "cream"😂🤣😂🤣!! Now I didn't lol in his face but I'm sure he saw my confusion. How can I help him help me climax and break away from this shyness? I'm not trying to go all "50 shades of gray" but I need a lil something extra than the horizontal polka...ijs