I feel scared and sad.

I correlate abuse with gifts and the gifts being sorrys (without actually saying it). That's what my father would do to my mom and I...

My boyfriend is doing just that and I can't get sway from the pictures in my head. I hate gifts. I never accept them. I never will. I feel so sick. I told him I hate gifts and I will never accept them and he still gets them for me. It really hurts me. I was serious when I told him and in no way was I kidding. He said he's buying me something (we just got out of a big fight), I feel so sick. My mind is killing me. I told him to stop and to return it or give to someone else but he says I'm being rude. He knows all of this...

What can I do to stop this ?