I know, I know, another preseed post. Here’s the thing though: no one gives you the gnitty gritties you wanna know!!

There are literally thousands upon thousands of men and woman who claim it works. It is one of the best selling for that reason. Cool, got it.

However!

What no one says is how they use it. Sounds like a pretty obvious question but it’s not. Especially when you’re not into lube (let alone positions other than the basics) so here’s what I’ve learned:

1. Can it be used after: yes, maybe not as effective and definitely more .. uhhhm, drippy, but yes.

2. Do you stop and put it in? Or could you use it like regular lube: both, yes! Some may feel strange about it, I’ve read it can kind of be a mood killer and I see that... but baby making unfortunately can be with the testing and peeing and prodding with thermometers and the excess journaling🤷🏼‍♀️

On the other hand, I’ve read using it as you would a regular lube is beneficial also, however, it dries quickly so move fast!

3. LESS IS BEST!!!! We all, as woman, know how it gets when we’re ovulating and it’s a little akwardly wet (which most of our mothers failed to explain to us, mine for sure🤦🏼‍♀️- this stuff is no different!!! It can very well leak out of the applicator so don’t leave it sitting around in there without anything under (trust me) and when inserting if you do too much, you will drip. It’s gross. I’m sorry. But not sorry because SOMEONE NEEDED TO SAY THAT!

4. There is such thing as a 15 min pre application. That again ^^ less is best and if you have a partner like mine who likes to, well, focus on you, insert more inner-ly...

5. Ladies, and gentlemen, it’s expensive, it’s a debatable question, but if you feel the need to use or try it do it!! It’s okay to say I haven’t gotten pregnant after the 1st or 17th month. Human bodies are an amazing thing!! But they do not always work the exact same... remember that.

I really hope this helps someone out there in Glowland. I’ve been looking for better descriptors answers and no one seems to want to answer the hard questions. I’m not trying to be gross, I’m trying to figure it out and a newbie to a lot of things including sex in general.

Baby dust to all!