Please help!!!😩😩

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years we just started our 1st year of college and he’s a student athlete, so he has a very busy schedule, but ever since we’ve got to college we’ve had problems and keep breaking up on and off. He seems to now rarely make time for us to do anything we used to do, when he had free time. He rather spend it with his friends or going to go get “food” with his friends. And I mean our relationship has been seriously damaged by what’s been said in arguments. Our communication is off and I keep asking him to see if this is what he wants anymore, and he says he does.. but his actions don’t show it. Is he losing interest in our relationship? 😭😭😭