Feeling less like a mom

I’m 40w3d and not dilated. I’m pretty sure I’m going to have to be induced but I’ll find out for sure in two days. Lately I’ve been so depressed about it and I feel less like a mom because I’m not going into labor on my own. I know that has nothing to do with being a mom & I wouldn’t consider anyone who got induced or had a csection less of a mom but for myself that’s how I feel. I guess I just had a who delivery thought out in my head and since plans changed I’m just upset. Is it normal to feel like this?