Finding out gender???

Cara

Ok so I need some opinions pretty please. Ive wanted to know the sex of our baby from the start, but my partner was firmly against it wanting the surprise on the day. Things have been a bit tense between us the last few weeks (just with my crazy hormones and him starting a new job etc) so he said he has changed his mind and wants to find out at our scan on Monday. He said we need some good news and this will cheer us both up, plus the birth will still be exciting regardless. Which I agree but he was so against it I don’t want him to be doing it just to cheer me up then later regret it. What do you ladies think? Should we find out or should I tell him no we should wait?