c section

hi there, I'm writing to find out if any other mums have experienced this and if it is common? I was induced 3 weeks early due to my baby girl measuring small....? as she was my first I obviously thought nothing of it. I went into hospital to have 5 attempts at pessarys etc but nothing was working she wasn't coming, i spent 4 days in hospital. on the 5th day they decided to try and break my waters, no gas and air or anything it was so painful! anyway they managed to do this and sent me down for an epidural and started my contractions off, 12 hours high as a kite not knowing what day it was so scary. after all this I only ended up 3 cm dilated so I had to have an emergency c section. 1 hour later our little girl was born not small at all she weighed a perfect 6pound 8 ❤❤❤ so in love from that moment it was the most life changing thing I have ever done. so all was well the next day we went home. come the following Friday I felt really funny I went upstairs to put my pj's on and felt like a pop in my tummy turns out my stiches opened up and I was leaking like this bloody ros'e coloured fluid from my tummy I honestly thought I was dying. so off I went to hospital . anyway 3 months later I finally recovered and I'm well now, however it was the most scariest time of my life and I feel like I missed out on the first 3 months of poppy's life cuz of it . she's the most amazing little girl and so beautiful I'm so thankful for being blessed but I can't help but think it was all not necessary as she wasn't small at all they should of just left her where she was she was happy ❤❤❤❤❤💗💟💕