Is my husband addicted to sex?

I never can seem to do enough to appease his appetite. Like, we got 2 kids under 3. I don't have the time or energy for him to have 2-3 orgasms per rendezvous, plus multiple times a week. Plus he's also all into anal on his end, wanting me to wear strap-ons, tie his balls down, and stick my fingers up there. I don't want to be sticking my finger up there... It always comes out poopy. I'm covered in enough excrement & spit up as is 😤