TTC is not fun anymore

First off, this is my very first post on here. I'm 31 and have been TTC for 6 months. My husband and I have been doing it more "spontaneously" in the months prior- with no results- so we decided to try fertility tracking for this month (hence, the download of this app). My fertile week came and I let him know. We happily BD'd several times for the first two days of it but then decided to take a break from the excitement so that we could have better chances on my higher fertile days. Day 4 of my fertile week came and he got weird. He actually got upset with me that we were doing it on a schedule and decided to throw a fit about it. He said he wants a baby but he doesn't want to have to perform on command. I get it, I really do but... there's timing to it that I know he is fully aware of. We ended up reluctantly doing it on day 5, yesterday, not passionate or loving like normal and now I'm actually hoping it doesn't stick and I don't get that BFP that I so desperately wanted in the beginning of the week. I want my baby made in pure love and I don't feel the love if my husband thinks making it is such a chore. If he thinks his couple of minutes of having to "perform" is so inconvenient then does he really want this? Midnight feedings and all? I'm just not as excited anymore. I'm more venting than looking for answers but input is welcome... obviously.