Help I don't know what to do!!

Y'all I'm so excited for baby number two, but my boyfriend is deploying and on top of that he just found out his mom has cancer. So he isn't not thrilled about the pregnancy which really pisses me off!! My mom had cancer two years ago so I know how hard it is to go through.... it just really upsets me bc for starters he is spend the rest of his time in Alabama which I understand but I really feel like we need to talk in person and he doesn't get it! I feel like he wants me to get rid of the baby but I refuse I don't believe in abortion and babies are something I see as a blessing so I think this could be a blessing not for just us but something to help his mother focus on something other than the cancer. I don't think I'm being unreasonable am I?