Idk what to do anymore

I wanna go out, im 21 but all my husband wants to do is stay in , i hang with my friends but were all in college and theyre single its veey rare that what they want to do doesn’t involve a club and plus i just want to hang with my husband sometimes but some how for the past few years ive been letting him convince me hell start taking me out more. It never happens we do dinner dates that’s about it, he’s ready for kids ik but it hasn’t happened and i feel there so much life we can be enjoying while were still young and have no kids . But he doesn’t find any interest in anything besides works and naps and tv.