I’m so frustrated with my husband! There’s quite a few reasons he’s been getting on my nerves, he’s lazy and inconsiderate and has recently been letting his temper get the best of him, but I found out the other day he’s been smoking while at work. I asked him to stop and he promised me he would, then today comes home and gives me a kiss and tastes like an ash tray- even just from a small peck. So I’m furious and he doesn’t see the problem. Am I over-reacting?