A few people know. Some figured it out because there's an obvious bump if I'm not hiding it.. So far all I've gotten from the people who do know is negative remarks and people just generally being rude about it. All of these people know we just lost a baby and still choose to act like this pregnancy is the most awful thing that could happen to us. We are excited and we're planning a gender reveal, but now I don't even want to have one because I feel like no one will come or those who do won't be happy.. It's getting the point I just want to stop telling people all together until the baby is born. I don't want to make a big announcement on facebook to far away family. I don't want to tell anymore people who are close to us. I don't want to do any of it. Am I wrong for feeling this way?