Gender?

So I have to say on the outside I am feminine casual with camis, skirts, well fitting jeans but not skinny jeans. I wear a lot of hoodies and sometimes I love makeup and jewelry but somewhat rarely actually. I’ve been told I’m emo, a girly girl, a tomboy, a dyke, and many other things. But my personality is pretty masculine— video games, horror movies, that sort of thing but I also love ice skating and hate sports. I am Pansexual and on national coming out Day, I came out and it went well. Later on, someone said they thought my gender identity is what I was coming out as— being non binary. Can someone explain? Also, what are the different gender types?

Also Note: Gender and sex are different on a scientific level so saying vagina=girl is disproven and inaccurate based on countless scientific evidence and research.