miserable

being around my mom or just her texting me annoys the hell out of me. She tells me what  I need to do with MY daughter when she's sick , tells me she should go outside and play. She talks about how much weight I've gained and every time I eat something she makes faces or says should you be eating that! I have my own life outside of her but she just won't leave me alone when I'm not at her house. And if I don't answer or respond to her calls/texts she says do I need to come over or I'm coming over to check on you. To be honest she makes me depressed, stressed and makes me what to die. I haven't even told my husband that part about wanting to die. Because it's not always like that. My depression takes a toll on me and just makes me not wanna be here anymore. All because of my mom. And when I try to talk to my mom about how she isn't the mom of my daughter and stop talking about my weight she just gets so defensive. The worst part is: I work in the same company as her and my dad. My dad doesn't ever stand up to my mom and when I do they both bitch at me. I'm in the middle of trying to find a new job that works with my schedule but it's hard and I know I won't be making good money like I do now.