Seriously?!

Sorry, just need to rant here. I had a strong positive opk yesterday AM and PM, so obviously DH and I BD last night after work. So, me, super ready to make a baby, said to him tonight, let's go again, just to give us that extra chance! (wishful thinking I know) He already has a way lower sex drive than me, but he totally shut me down saying that he wasn't into it tonight, maybe tomorrow. I'm sitting here thinking 'I thought you wanted a baby???' And seriously contemplating that if this month it doesn't happen, maybe I should go back on BC until he's willing to follow up and actually get the lab tests his Dr ordered to figure out why he is so tired and has such a low sex drive. I'm not sure I can get my hopes up every month when I'm struggling to get him to have sex more than once a week. I'm just so frustrated!!!!!!!