Does anyone feel alone in this?

Rose • Spoken word/slam poet who is working to compete nationally. I love coffee, books, and babies. Obsessed with Breaking Bad
We are only a few months in to trying. I am a perfectionist and it's so difficult to not find myself getting stressed or nervous about it all. We are young so I'm doing my best to remain chill about it. I want it to happen when it will happen but I keep going through periods where I feel a little stressed and then periods where I am far more laid back. 
Anyone I talk to about this does not understand. People tell me to chill and that I shouldn't be checking my cm or worrying at all. That I sound stressed and don't need to be. My best friend even is telling me to not bother even thinking about it until it happens. (Understandably I guess since she's soon seeing a fertility specialist.) 
My husband doesn't comprehend cycles and is so laid back. 
When I asked for assistance on a website someone told me I needed to temp and take opks so I shouldn't ask for advice if I'm unwilling to understand my cycles. 
I don't know of anyone besides my BFF that is TTC (or that is and is talking about it with me). 
I just feel so alone with no one to talk to. I feel like I have so many mixed emotions and I feel so misunderstood. I'm either doing too much or not enough. 
Does anyone else relate?