Too early????

So I’m 21 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend has been getting his life insurance in-order etc. for safety sake, which means doing medicals etc. he came home today feeling a bit down, for lack of a better word. And then later told me that he was worried now because two doctors had told him I’m only 21 weeks and we already have bought some stuff and painted the room and that it was way too early!

I don’t feel like it is? Am I wrong? I’m not a on number 99% person, I’m actually pretty hands on as well, I’ve enjoyed doing all these things with him. I would hate to be stressed out toward the end and have to put all that pressure on him to do everything because I won’t be mobile enough.

And what if it isn’t a full term baby? (I had a broken pelvis years ago, we don’t know what could happen) I’ve been VERY emotional this week, so maybe this is just a rant to feel better. Or a bit of an over reaction. I’m not sure