My bf, fiancee winked at a girl.
We were having a birthday party tonight (kids) and these 3 girls come really late like at 11 when everyone was leaving already. I don't like these girls because they are really obnoxious and they speak so ghetto. I don't hate them but they're just not people id talk to. My best friend and sister even made weird looks to me when they came in because they were loud and dressed really slutty whatever, they were friends invited by my bfs mom. to keep things short throughout the party I went to the kitchen to get food and I saw my bf there and those three girls. with one of his friends and someone else. I heard my bf offering them beers which my reaction was like "wtf they can get their own drinks" mind you we had also run into them at party city a week ago and they told him they were coming later on that day I told him I didn't like them which he said it was fine that he didn't invite them either and they ghetto "hoes" so anyways I'm not sure if they said yes or no since I was getting food which I then tell me bf "get some food babe n come with me to the front" he goes "U want me to go in the front?" I said yes because he hadn't spend time with me, i was tired holding our baby AND yes it would of gotten me upset if he was drinking and just being there with them and not even some time with us. as I was walking out one of the girls told me they gave my bf money for our daughters gift. I thank her and said it was a good thing she told cus he would have not. they laughed and I saw my bf walking back in and I told him "oh I heard they gave the baby some money" he then laughed and snorted and said no they gave ME some money. the girls started laughing and saying things i couldn't catch on but as iwas walking away to the front I looked back and saw my bf wink at one of them and say "Just kidding" nd ladies I have never felt so fucken crazy because my bf isn't the type to wink at anyone when he jokes around, he does it to me and he does it when he's flirting. I'm also pregnant with #2 so I felt my hormones take over and I said "Are you fucken serious" not loudly for anyone to hear but him he quickly saw that I caught him and made a face, i told him to get away from me and i just gave him my plate because I was so pist. I was already having an off day because many things happen throughout the day but I was trying to not let it get to me til I saw what he did. I then said "who tf you winking at?" What got me more upset was he tried to DENY that he did. After he had said it was no big deal. So it's not big deal but now ur saying it never happen and I'm "tripping" I can't stand a liar and I told please don't DON'T dare to deny it will make me not trust you at all. He ended apologizing but I could care less. I know a wink is a wink but it was very flirtatious and it hurt me. Especially if he did that behind my back. What do you guys think. I don't even know what to do since the only thing I can do from it is move on. edit* his mom had no reason to invite them she's a manger where she works and I guess invited them to come, iv worked with them for a short while before too but wouldn't talk to those girls.
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