Okay, so i need other moms opinions on if im being a crazy baby mama or not. I am at work until 7 tonight and my parents are keeping my 6 week old daughter. They have to go to walmart today so i had asked her dad to come get her for a few hours (we are not together). Originally i had said he could come over to my parents and watch her but he didnt want to do that. He is taking her back to his parents house where they smoke in the house. They dont smoke around her but the smell is still all over. So i told him he could take her for 3 hours because i didnt want her over there all day. 1) its not good for her lungs and 2) i have to wash everything including her car seat cover and diaper bag when she comes back from there. He was also with another girl this morning and ive made it clear i dont want other girls around her, for obvious reasons later on but right now mainly because he hardly gets her so when he does, his focus should be on her, not another girl. And i cant trust him not to have her around my daughter.

My mom completely ignored my wishes and let him get her all day. I am pissed! Am i wrong for being mad or not?