stressed out

my husband and I are both in the Coast Guard. currently pregnant with our second child. I'm just very frustrated right now that family and friends don't understand that in 2.5 years of marriage and 2 pregnancies we have gotten to spend maybe MAYBE a year total together. everyone wants to monopolize our time together and I just want to spend time with my spouse. no one understands the difficulty of being a dual military family. maybe I'm just extra sensitive because I'm pregnant but it's so frustrating that no one gets that we have limited time together and sometimes just want to be our little family for a while.