to do or not

Vilma • Had a miscarriage in October 2015 and a stillbirth son in February 25,2017. My heart is ready to try again. Rainbow baby due July 2018 👶👶

so, I really want to get my nose pierced, but my brothers girlfriend did hers. should I still go ahead and do it or not?she tends to compete with my sister and law and I.. any suggestions? thanks.