why is getting pregnant so hard

emma

hello this is my first time posting but I wanted some real life experiences me and my husband have been trying to conceive for nearly a year and nothing. then a couple months ago I was late by 43 days and we were so excited since I'm very regular but of course the unthinkable happened 49 days late I was in terrible pain and I began to bleed. at my ob they sent me for some scans and found that I have 3 large cysts on my right ovary and a small one on my left and a fibroid I've been reading up on this and it says and so does my doc that this will prevent pregnancy, so what I'm trying to figure out has anyone had any similar medical problems and still was able to conceive. We would really like to know I'm supposed to have surgery to remove them but I'm scared because my doc said if my uterus starts to bleed during the surgery then she would have to do a hysterectomy and I don't want that at all. please any comments will be helpful. Thank you