SO& Porn

I was looking through the search history on our computer ( my SO and in share a laptop) and saw that he had watched tons of porn lastnight. I know its normal for men to watch porn and masturbate. Im just upset because i was home last night. I had gone to bed at 8:30, which i suppose is kind of early. But he couldve woken me. Instead he chose porn. Am i being crazy.? And we are ttc. Isnt masturbating during your fertile days, reduce sperm count.? PLEASE help me approach him on this ):